MY CHILDREN WILL NEVER KNOW JUSTICE
The Mother was so much bigger than all British Columbia Courts, She did not have to comply with orders, as she was exempt , maybe they were only suggestions . She practiced parental alienation to a fine art. The Pages and Posts attempt to support this claim with fact.
This blog is a father’s story of his journey of Injustice, within the Canadian Family Law System. The majority of the public are not aware that Canadian Lawyers chase custody and access litigation with the same eagerness expressed to litigate a divorce. We are fair game, this blog talks to these lawyer’s acts of Professional Misconduct, Professional Incompetence and Conflict of Interest, this is allowed to exist under the pretence that their actions are in the Children’s best interests ? No, give your head a shake, they are only there to self serve their own interests, we are expected to accept this. Well I don’t. A wake-up for me where the Judges, that see this everyday, they are complacent, and just a part of the process, they are a large part of the problem and ………….. they don’t care.
I have not trust in the Canadian Justice System because the people appointed to guard this process, are there covering these lawyer ‘s ass .
Our greatest loss is our faith in a Justice system, and without faith, this is not any better than Justice expected in a third world country. British Columbia Family Law is not any better than third world Justice. The Entitled Syrian refugee family is the flavor of the day and desired here in Canada, a public’s perception, and nobody cares that the existing Canadian family that have been fucked over as the fodder to feed these Legal Social Leaches.
This was an extreme act of sexism !
This was Cruel and Criminal, this is what these fucks get away with, these Lawyers are Criminals
Time to move forward, there should have to be accountability !
Megan now 23 yrs and Liam 21 yrs have spent a weekend together first time in just under 10 years, this was the greatest gift I received, Christmas 2015.
The thought of the Consiquential damage that was inflicted on My children is unforgivable and breaks my heart
Look at what my children have lost, Steven N Mansfield, this is for you to wear. I will spend Christmas with my daughter, Megan, first Christmas for me, in over 10 years. I am excited and it is my time to recover from the injustice extended to both me and my children, by Steven N Mansfield and his Incompetent partner Judge Jane Auxier, a true picture of ” the British Columbia Family Justice System “.
They may say, “get over it” well I now can start.
This is long overdue for me ” I am so much stronger than I ever believed ”
Also take time to read the Post Mel’s Story 2014 sorry to say nothing has changed in over a decade, except David Patison is no smarter and Steven N Mansfield is still the greedy stinking Social Leach, ask him how his own children, Jackson and Annie are faring out, I will bet a fuck of a lot better than my Megan and Liam.
I will now move forward as best I can, in an attempt to make a life for myself. I have my health, thanks to my Children.
God thanks for these gifts, the two of them, they will always have my unconditional love, they certainly have made me a better person, I was allowed the privilege to serve as a shepherd to Megan, this was certainly a challenge and now to have been able to bring these siblings back together after all these years, thank you, thank you for my health, a selection of good friends, and more than anything, thank you for your light cast in my direction, when I could not see beyond the moment ……………………………………………………..
These two were not difficult to love, I was one lucky man, when I see your innocence it hurts to think of the pain the two of you experienced.
You will note throughout this BLOG
I do not beat up on my X, she beat herself up, I married Biopolar Insanity, I beat up on the British Columbia Family Law and the
PIG’s that perpetrate this partison British Columbia Family Justice System . They will blame my X, no it was more profitable for them to allow her to
destroy her own. How sad !
If the roles were reversed I would have been put in Jail. It is all about the Mother’s Rights.
For me it is, and should have been ” all about the Children’s Rights”.
Liam and Megan at 18 months of age
Look at my beautiful children, they were my love and my life
November 2002 Lawyer Steven N Mansfield Partner Bayshore Law Group
understood the Mandate
This letter clearly showed Steven Mansfield understood mandate (see post)
“It is difficult to predict with any certainty what the Court will do when faced with a difficult application such as yours. Ms.X has been the children’s primary caregiver since your separation and the children obviously have a close attachment and bond with her. However, there is a body of case law to suggest that where a party is unwilling to comply with Court Orders, and improperly uses their status as the custodial parent to alienate children from the non-custodial parent that the Court will “flip custody” to the access parent as the only course of action available to them. “
“As you are aware, I have issued you recent accounts for the services rendered to date and there remains outstanding a balance of $5,958.92. I do ask that you take whatever steps are necessary to retire the balance owing on your account at your earliest opportunity. I know that you are aware of the amounts owing and that you are doing your best.”
Steven N Mansfield
BAYSHORE LAW GROUP per: ,
Steven N. Mansfield SNM/rw
Take the time to read this Page Judge Auxier’s Reasons for Judgement June 2003
This was the Conclusion
“Ms. Wood must be made aware that it is an offence to fail to comply with the terms of this order. She must also be aware that further non- compliance might well lead to a finding that It would be in the children’s best interests to be with their father — i.e. the court could well find that the harm caused to these children by her ongoing refusal to comply with court orders and to encourage their relationship with their father outweighs the concerns I have expressed about upruting them from their present situation.”
Provincial Court Judge
Well within 9 months after Auxier’s ORDERs
The children were removed from the Mother by the Ministry, as she was making them crazy, did they think of dad as an alternate placement, NO
it was only after Liam had endured Foster Parenting, with 90 days to endure under agreement with Family Protection my Liam was placed in my care
was placed with Dad back on lower mainland
this lasted 9 months, with help of mothers Lawyer, Lex Reynold, partnered with the Mother to abduct the son while Ministry was looking on, as we had negotiated a mid-term break for visit with Mother
this was observed. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Then I will introduce you to the Kangaroo Court of Victoria British Columbia ——— an incestuous mess
after Auxier, this is the most confusing cesspool of anything but JUSTICE and certainly not in my children’s best interests
The Over-Nutritionalized Trudi Brown has gifted me a Book of Exhibits that is all you get from this QC
” NO ” this is Reality
Today I have a limited relationship with Liam, now 21, abducted by him mother at age 11, she failed to return Liam after mediated visit, mother sites unsubstantiated protection issues, after having been placed in father’s care for 9 months by the Ministry, and Mother thinks it in Liam’s best interest not to have a father/son relationship, ( Martin Orr and Ministry -WATCHED) as mother know best. I did not see Liam for 5 years and have seen Liam maybe 5 or 6 times since he was taken. For anywhere from 2 hrs to 24 hrs, make note of conclusion of Custidy and Access Report below
A Mother’s best thinking ( please read )the Page – Debbie Lesurf’s Custody and Access Report (dated June 22,2004)
this report was ordered but not executed prior to Children’s removal by Ministry of Children and Family
This Court Ordered Custody and Access Report by Judge Myers of Vancouver Jurisdiction
Note date of this report 3 months after Ministry removed Children from Mother
SUMMARY AND RECOMMENDATIONS: June 22, 2004
Jean appears to be strongly invested in maintaining control over Bill’s relationship with his children. It is very difficult to foresee a situation in which these children feel free to have a relationship with both parents when Jean is the primary parent.
Family Justice Counsellor Custody and Access Report Team
You were RIGHT Debbie
This is harsh to accept ” why were these children never placed in Father’s care “
I am now surveying the collateral damage caused by the greedy stink, of Lawyer, Steven N Mansfield, and bottom feeding, Lawyer David Patison, in partnership with this sexist Incompetent Judge, who’s action resulted in separating a brother and his sister, I seriously hope Jane Auxier, has no children or grandchildren of her own, as this is unforgivable, I want to believe Judge Jane Auxier did not know any better. Megan stated yesterday in conversation, ” I lost my childhood “, this was as a result of their inappropriate actions, or lack of action. The actions that followed in the Victoria Provincial Court are an interesting display of anything but Justice, perpetrated by Lex Reynolds and his partner, Judge Higginbotham, unbelievable. This stink, Alexander Reynolds owned the British Columbia Ministry of Children and Family in Victoria, talk about partison, he had his way with not only his Judge ( his prayer partner) but also the administrative arm of this group of incompetents, Martin Orr and the British Columbia Ministry of Children and Family, (your will find a sampling of some of this material within ) This makes me sick to even recall, these fucks, had children of their own. I am now aware, this is how middle class, white males are treated in this Family Law Court System of Justice.what a fucked up joke.” Justice“,
My children did not see this humor or each other for Nine years
read the Page —- (Complaint to the Law Society re-the Stink of Lex Reynolds 2006-2007) this Andrea Brownstone, is now been appointed a Judge . This was the very person responsible for allowing Reynald to get away with writing his own Final Orders, with only his signature on them, not the Overnutritionalized Trudi Brown’s signature or a court stamp. These were given to my X , by Reynolds, they stating she had sole custody. This was a criminal Act
The truth is we had fallen back on a modified version of Judge Auxier’s Orders (full circle), where I agreed, it would be the children decision to see their dad. Knowing full well the children would have little to do with this. I really had fought the good fight, with no financial ammunition left, I had no choice.
This was a criminal act and Andrea Brownstone Winograd was Staff Lawyer responsible for Professional Conduct at the British Columbia Law Society, Read the complaint, this is our Judge Andrea Brownstone, this is incestuous and partisan. This is the act that blindsided me to be unaware my child was in the streets and my X continued to receive child support when the child was not even in her care.
The British Columbia Ministry Of Children and Families excepted these Orders as FINAL ORDERS This is justice BC style. These Final Orders were placed with the children’s schools, care givers and excepted by these morons at the Ministry Of Children and Mothers under Martin Orr’s direction. Dad no longer exists. I had dealt with Brownstone when dealing with both Mansfield.and Reynolds. She looked after her Boys.
This protector of Lawyers inappropriate behaviour, Andrea Brownstone is now a JUDGE, ” give you head a shake”.
there is a lot of pain within
I had a boy too, Liam, Notice past tense don’t know him today. After being abducted by Mother and cost me my home to legally challenge, I also had Megan who was in trouble and required so much of my time, her needs were immediate and consuming. Some part of this, was your choice Liam, I know how powerless you must have felt. I am sure you hurt, if the outside reflects the inside.
Debbie LeSurf’s Custody and Access Report said it all
Look at this picture note date, and picture of Liam above six months earlier.
I find this hard to look at, it hurts me
I not longer have anger, i have no time for that, I have a lack of respect for Canadian Justice, it does not exist
is this just a bad dream
there has to be accountability ! ! !
Look what they did to my boy, they stole the light in his eyes and his beautiful smile,
it only took the British Columbia Family Justice System six months to do that. Should I sing you a verse of O Canada or tell you to go fuck yourself !
if at anytime you feel I am rude or vulgar, tell me what you would sound like if this were your situation
52 Posts and 34 Pages (darkened area under children’s picture on front page of Blog) consists of court details and documents, letters and general sundry detail, this journal has saved my life ……………………………. I had to put this out
You can’t keep this shit inside, it is poison, it is my reality, a 4 year marriage takes away everything of meaning in life, how would you describe what this has done to MY CHILDREN
This blog is close to what I would say is the the end, I will eventually tell this story in detail, but at present my task will be to find financial security, I am now 65 years and starting from scratch, excuse my self pity, I have lost a lot of time, with a child at risk in the streets, it has shown me how kick ass strong I am, this certainly has brought out the best in me.
“this is what it was for me.”
Watching the never ending pain of this addictive disease that steals one’s conscious contact with life’s reality and replaces it with delusional thought,
I wanted to isolate, as this was the effect Megan’s addiction had on me, it was eating a hole in my heart, all I need is to hear her voice, my anxious panic subsides and that is enough to change my demeanour instantly, I now would rather talk to a stranger than family or friends. And it has been days since i last had contact with Megan
When I look back and ask how has this evolved to what we have here, it can be pinpointed to the devious actions of Steven N Mansfield and the Incompetence and in-compassionate Judge Jane Auxier, these pigs had an opportunity to make a difference in this child’s life. It is all about my choice of lawyer, I am responsible.
“So stick this in your head and run with it “
I was fighting for my own sanity, my sense of needing to be there for my Child at risk.. This was the driving force that occupied all my time and energy. There was a day that I felt, if this child is going to die, sooner would be better, that was a true thought, the hole in my heart seemed so large. The greatest surprise for me was I had brought these children back to each other and they will be together, only the two of them, together for a weekend. Wow. What joy this brings me, I sit here with a tears of joy and a lump in my throat, with this thought occupying all my thoughts,…………. my children together after all these years.
I am now experiencing the joy of being a parent, no longer spend every day in worry. This was draining, nine years keeping this inside, so lonely, isolating and sad. They took every thing I had in this world mentally, financially and emotionally, it was like I just rolled over, I could not recover from this mental anguish of parental separation. The gifts given to me by my children have saved me from a certain death. The sobriety, a gift I had given Megan, turned out to be the greatest gift I could have given myself and a close second the swim, Liam provide this, now in my tenth year , healthy and concious, you will have to admit I am one persistent person, the discipline to consistently swim a non-stop mile, 2 to 3 times a week, this was my drug.
When I was anxious or down, I swam. Did not need to talk, just swim. This was my way to find an attitude adjustment.
At fourteen, Megan was in the streets of Victoria BC and had been for four months before I meet up with her and became aware of a cocktail of designer drugs, her sense of adventure, a child lost and definitely hurting. As I had said at that time “Megan you are to young to be drinking and drugging, her response ” you are one to talk, she said ” you are a heavy drinker.” interesting since Megan had never seen me drink? Thought about this one and my response , I cried, had a deep look within and stated I will never drink again. This was my intention and it lasted for two hours, until I arrived back in Vancouver, where self pity had its way, I could not wait to get to a drink, my sadness and my hurt, you have no imagination of how this could feel unless you have had this experience. I was not ready for this, last saw Megan at age 11, sweet little girl, bright beyond her years, stubborn and playful, now 14 years and living in the street, homeless, what the fuck do you do as a parent. If at any moment, you think why did he not take her with him, do you have a chair and a large roll of duck tape. From this date forward I have not had a drink, you know I could not have handled the confusion or the depression, if I had allowed drink to have a part in my life. Thank you Megan for this gift
Missing indigenous women, I feel so bad for your families, your brothers and sisters, your moms and dads. I know your pain as my own pain allows me and the fact that you do not know whether your child is dead or alive, how sad, it sticks to you, it never lets go. At least I was some what aware of where Megan was, little comfort though, Megan and I were estranged for a period of close to 3 yrs. Now a rude awakening. Why was she in the streets, I did not know as this mother had alienated me. I had not even seen a picture or school report this was total alienation.
Now I get to find this
She was in the streets because her grandmother put her there, a 14 year old thrown into the street because she had a disagreement with her granddaughter, while her mother was out of the country for a two week stint, court ordered not to leave her children in the care of this individual unsupervised. So much for orders, she was bigger and knew so much better than all the incompitant judges in the British Columbia Provinial Family Court system. This grandmother had her sons, Megan’s Uncles, change the locks on the doors to the only home this child had, unbeknownst to Dad and like I earlier said unbeknownst to Mother. Megan had been in the streets from second week of January 2006 to May 13 2006 before Dad became aware. Called to attend Megan at her request by Randy Keyes, Senior Social worker at Ledger House, a division of Queen Alexandra Hospital for Children. Victoria BC
he asked ” Megan wanted to know if you still love her” isn’t that sad. You know my answer
You may say, what you say is your opinion, well that is why I produce facts
THESE ARE THE MOTHER’S OWN WORDS IN A FINAL LETTER TO MEGAN
Mother’s words to her daughter upon arriving back only to find her daughter living in the streets of Victoria, never feeling any reason to inform the Father of this situation, can you fucking believe this ……………………
Here is how this segment read:
Mother’s Words see page Too Little ( darkened area at front of blog ) facts are the pages
” Thinking that we all have responsibility for what actions caused what reactions, I made to you another statement that I want you to know I would change. At our meeting at the coffee shop you said” but the locks were changed.” I responded with ” but Gram was scared, scared of what might happen & is still scared”
Megan, that was your home, you had no access……………..& I was not there. I am so sorry.
I now look at that differently & would rather say to you, “how did that make you feel “
I can’t imagine”
i can’t imagine the pain this 14 year old must have felt, could you imagine a grandmother putting her only granddaughter into the streets because they had a dissagreement. This still haunts me to this day, I cannot fathom this.
Let’s look at the past but not stare, as we have reached a new joy, Megan’s recovery from the depth of addiction, a place I always believe could be reached, if I could continued with persistent contact and loved her unconditionally and she is learning to love herself. Megan has never had a home since her grandmother discarded her and she has never spoken with her mother since, how sad, dad never gave up, not for one minute as he expressed his love for this child, which exceeded his own love of life
It was everyone’s fault but her’s, ” I CAN ONLY DESCRIBE this AS INSANITY “
YOU the British Columbia Law Society allowed this to happen, all for the money, where were your ethics and your integrity , Mansfield, Patison , Brown and the lowest piece of human stink Lex Reynolds, knew of neither ethics or integrity , you fucked up two beautiful children’s lives , not to mention my own
what were my rights or did I have rights or do I have rights ???
Over nine long years
hopefully Megan, your pain will pass, we will never be free of this struggle, It sticks to you, that is life’s challenge
Megan I am so proud of you. You are such a gift and a gifted Child
and you feel bad for putting me through this experience, Megan you have shown me the strength of my unconditional love for you and none of this was ever your fault, you have always done your best. You are such a survivor, so strong.
I do not know Liam as the Adolescent, and certainly don’t know Liam as the young Man, remember the Conclusion to Debbie LeSurf’s Custody and Access Report
I have pushed a lot of information in your direction, sorry if there is any confusion, I can explain
I look for Justice
Megan turns 24 in two days, she is moving life forward, as I do, I will worry less about her as time passes, she probably requires emotional help, she is a driving force, and with out her, my life had no purpose, We are very close, as we have struggled together. I believe it is called unconditional love.
Liam and I struggle, We do not know each other, how does a boy get to know his Dad, when this man had no place in his life. How sad. This was Criminal !
I had 4 beautiful homes and this fucking stink referred to as British Columbia FAMILY LAW took ALL and more than that they took my SPIRIT, Megan restored what the low life Steven N Mansfield and arrogant Incompitent Judge Jane Auxier took from Us.
Remember you assholes this was in my children best INTEREST ?
We will never Heal, this is our Past,
Where Do we Go From here
Mel said it best in 2014
What’s really sad is the fact that separation happens every day yet the public has no knowledge on what really goes on. I have tried to bring these issues ‘to light’ as I think everyone should know the basics and prepare themselves for if that day ever comes.
More importantly, to teach people what they can do to protect & defend themselves without having to pay Divorce Lawyers. Most will suck you dry if given the chance & don’t seem to care who’s lives are destroyed in the process.
Saddest part is the fact that the Court is supposed to recognize the child(s) FIRST yet I have sat there and been shocked how little they do care of the welfare of the child.
Remember everyone…our Court Rooms are the PEOPLE’s Court Rooms and the Judge is supposed to be there to mediate & make decisions. That is taxpayer’s dollars for the most part! Yet Lawyers have no problem ‘draggin’ it out and wasting everyone’s time and money.
I’m looking foward to the day that my friend may pursue some civil charges against a Lawyer or two for what has happened to him.
I still wait for a Reporter(s) who has the ‘balls’ to do a story on Divorce Lawyers & our Divorce Laws.
A REAL story that affects people everyday.
Point the camera & shoot. I’m not afraid to tell the truth.
I’ve got the facts and the evidence to ‘back it’!
Mel’s comments pertains to Divorce litigation, this was always only Custidy and Access litigation and look what this low life has done to my Children
Ask Steven N Mansfield how his two children are faring.