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MY CHILDREN WILL NEVER KNOW JUSTICE


The Mother was so much bigger than all British Columbia Courts, She did not have to comply with orders, as she was exempt , maybe they were only suggestions . She practiced parental alienation to a fine art. The Pages and Posts attempt to support this claim with fact.

William J. 

 

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This blog is a father’s story of his journey of Injustice, within the Canadian Family Law System. The majority of the public are not aware that Canadian Lawyers chase custody and access litigation with the same eagerness expressed to litigate a divorce. We are fair game, this blog talks to these lawyer’s acts of Professional Misconduct, Professional Incompetence and Conflict of Interest, this is allowed to exist under the pretence that their actions are  in the Children’s best interests ?  No, give your head a shake, they are only there to self serve their own interests, we are expected to accept this. Well I don’t. A wake-up for me where the Judges, that see this everyday, they are complacent, and just a part of the process, they are a large part of the problem and ………….. they don’t care.  

I have not trust in the Canadian Justice System because the people appointed to guard this process, are there covering these lawyer ‘s ass .

Our greatest loss is our faith in a Justice system, and without faith, this is not any better than Justice expected  in a third world country. British Columbia Family Law is not any better than third world Justice. The Entitled Syrian refugee family is the flavor of the day and desired here in Canada, a public’s perception, and nobody cares that the existing Canadian family that have been fucked over as the fodder to feed these Legal Social Leaches. 

This was an extreme act of sexism !   

This was Cruel and Criminal, this is what these fucks get away with, these Lawyers are Criminals  

Time to move forward, there should have to be accountability ! 

Megan now 23 yrs  and Liam 21 yrs have spent a weekend together first time in just under 10 years, this was the greatest gift I received, Christmas 2015. 

The thought of the Consiquential damage that was inflicted on My children is unforgivable and breaks my heart

Look at what my children have lost, Steven N Mansfield, this is for you to wear. I will spend Christmas with my daughter, Megan,  first Christmas for me, in over 10 years. I am excited and it is my time to recover from the injustice extended to both me and my children, by Steven N Mansfield and his Incompetent partner Judge Jane Auxier, a true picture of ” the British Columbia Family Justice System “.

I had had enough, taking my life was an option, writing this Judge was another 

They may say, “get over it”  well I now can start.

This is long overdue for me ” I am so much stronger than I ever believed ”

Also take time to read the Post  Mel’s Story 2014  sorry to say nothing has changed in over a decade, except David Patison is no smarter and Steven N Mansfield is still the greedy stinking Social Leach, ask him how his own children, Jackson and Annie are faring out, I will bet a fuck of a lot better than my Megan and Liam. 

I will now move forward as best I can, in an attempt to make a life for myself. I have my health, thanks to my Children.

God thanks for these gifts, the two of them, they will always have my unconditional love, they certainly have  made me a better person, I was allowed the privilege to serve as a shepherd to Megan, this was certainly a challenge and now to have been able to bring these siblings back together after all these years, thank you, thank you for my health, a selection of good friends, and more than anything, thank you for your light cast in my direction, when I could not see beyond the moment  ……………………………………………………..

These two were not difficult to love, I was one lucky man, when I see your innocence it hurts to think of the pain the two of you experienced.

You will note throughout this BLOG

I do not beat up on my X, she beat herself up, I married Biopolar Insanity, I beat up on the British Columbia Family Law and the

PIG’s  that perpetrate this partison British Columbia Family Justice System . They will blame my X, no it was more profitable for them to allow her to

destroy her own.  How sad !

 If the roles were reversed I would have been put in Jail. It is all about the Mother’s Rights. 

For me it is, and should have been ” all about the Children’s Rights”. 

 

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Liam and Megan at 18 months of age  

Look at my beautiful children, they were my love and my life

November 2002   Lawyer Steven N Mansfield Partner Bayshore Law Group

understood the Mandate 

This letter clearly showed Steven Mansfield understood mandate (see post) 

“It is difficult to predict with any certainty what the Court will do when faced with a difficult application such as yours. Ms.X has been the children’s primary caregiver since your separation and the children obviously have a close attachment and bond with her. However, there is a body of case law to suggest that where a party is unwilling to comply with Court Orders, and improperly uses their status as the custodial parent to alienate children from the non-custodial parent that the Court will “flip custody” to the access parent as the only course of action available to them. “

“As you are aware, I have issued you recent accounts for the services rendered to date and there remains outstanding a balance of $5,958.92. I do ask that you take whatever steps are necessary to retire the balance owing on your account at your earliest opportunity. I know that you are aware of the amounts owing and that you are doing your best.”

Yours truly,

Steven N Mansfield

BAYSHORE LAW GROUP per: ,
Steven N. Mansfield SNM/rw

 

Take the time to read this Page  Judge Auxier’s Reasons for Judgement June 2003

This was the Conclusion

“Ms. Wood must be made aware that it is an offence to fail to comply with the terms of this order. She must also be aware that further non- compliance might well lead to a finding that It would be in the children’s best interests to be with their father — i.e. the court could well find that the harm caused to these children by her ongoing refusal to comply with court orders and to encourage their relationship with their father outweighs the concerns I have expressed about upruting them from their present situation.”
J. Auxier
Provincial Court Judge

 Well within  9 months after Auxier’s ORDERs 

The children were removed from the Mother by the Ministry, as she was making them crazy, did they think of dad as an alternate placement,  NO 

it was only after Liam had endured Foster Parenting, with 90 days to endure under agreement with Family Protection  my Liam  was placed in my care

was placed with Dad back on lower mainland

and

this lasted 9 months, with help of mothers Lawyer, Lex Reynold, partnered with the Mother to abduct the son while Ministry was looking on, as we had negotiated a mid-term break for visit with Mother  

this was observed.   !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Then I will introduce you to the Kangaroo Court of Victoria British Columbia  ——— an incestuous mess

after Auxier, this is the most confusing cesspool of anything but JUSTICE and certainly not in my children’s best interests 

The Over-Nutritionalized Trudi Brown has gifted me a Book of Exhibits that is all you get from this QC

” NO ” this is Reality 

Today I have a limited relationship with Liam, now 21, abducted by him mother at age 11, she  failed to return Liam after mediated visit, mother sites unsubstantiated protection issues, after having been placed in father’s care for 9 months by the Ministry, and Mother thinks it in Liam’s best interest not to have a father/son relationship, ( Martin Orr and Ministry -WATCHED) as  mother know best. I did not see Liam for 5 years and have seen Liam maybe 5 or 6 times since he was taken. For anywhere from 2 hrs to 24 hrs, make note of conclusion of Custidy and Access Report below  

A Mother’s best thinking ( please read )the Page – Debbie Lesurf’s  Custody and Access Report (dated June 22,2004)

this report was ordered but not executed prior to Children’s removal by Ministry of Children and Family

This Court Ordered Custody and Access Report by Judge Myers of Vancouver Jurisdiction 

Note date of this report 3 months after Ministry removed Children from Mother

SUMMARY AND RECOMMENDATIONS:  June 22, 2004
Jean appears to be strongly invested in maintaining control over Bill’s relationship with his children. It is very difficult to foresee a situation in which these children feel free to have a relationship with both parents when Jean is the primary parent.
Respectfully submitted,
Debbie Lesurf
Family Justice Counsellor Custody and Access Report Team

You were RIGHT Debbie

Read this complete REPORT

This is harsh to accept  ” why were these children never placed in Father’s care “

I am now surveying the collateral damage caused by the greedy stink, of Lawyer, Steven N Mansfield, and bottom feeding, Lawyer David Patison, in partnership with this sexist Incompetent Judge, who’s action resulted in separating a brother and his sister, I seriously hope Jane Auxier, has no children or grandchildren of her own, as this is unforgivableI want to believe Judge Jane Auxier did not know any better. Megan stated yesterday in conversation,  ” I lost my childhood “,  this was as a result of their inappropriate actions, or lack of action. The actions that followed in the Victoria Provincial Court are an interesting display of anything but Justice, perpetrated by Lex Reynolds and his partner, Judge Higginbotham,  unbelievable. This stink, Alexander Reynolds owned the British Columbia Ministry of Children and Family in Victoria, talk about partison, he had his way with not only his Judge ( his prayer partner)  but also the administrative arm of this group of incompetents, Martin Orr and the  British Columbia Ministry of Children and Family, (your will find a sampling of some of this material within ) This makes me sick to even recall, these fucks,  had children of their own. I am now aware, this is how middle class, white males are treated in this Family Law Court System of Justice.what a fucked up joke.” Justice“,

My children did not see this humor or each other for Nine years                                                        

April 1st 2005

April 1st 2005   Before

 

read the Page —- (Complaint to the Law Society re-the Stink of Lex Reynolds 2006-2007) this Andrea Brownstone, is now been appointed a Judge . This was the very person responsible for allowing Reynald to get away with writing his own Final Orders, with only his signature on them, not the Overnutritionalized Trudi Brown’s signature or a court stamp. These were given  to my X , by Reynolds, they stating she had sole custody. This was a criminal Act 

The truth is we had fallen back on a modified version of Judge Auxier’s Orders  (full circle), where I agreed, it would be the children decision to see their dad. Knowing full well the children would have little to do with this. I really had fought the good fight, with no financial ammunition left, I had no choice. 

This was a criminal act  and Andrea Brownstone Winograd was Staff Lawyer responsible for Professional Conduct at the British Columbia Law Society,  Read the complaint, this is our Judge Andrea Brownstone,  this is incestuous and partisan.  This is the act that blindsided me to be unaware my child was in the streets and  my X  continued to receive child support when the child was not even in her care.

The British Columbia Ministry Of Children and Families excepted these Orders as FINAL ORDERS  This is justice BC style. These Final Orders were placed with the children’s schools, care givers and excepted by these morons at the Ministry Of Children and Mothers under Martin Orr’s direction. Dad no longer exists.   I had dealt with Brownstone when dealing with both  Mansfield.and Reynolds. She looked after her Boys.                                                                                                                                              

October 1 2005

October 1 2005.    After

This protector of Lawyers inappropriate behaviour,  Andrea Brownstone  is now a JUDGE, ” give you head a shake”. 

there is a lot of pain within  

I had a boy too, Liam, Notice past tense don’t know him today. After being abducted by Mother and cost me my home to legally challenge, I also had Megan who was in trouble and required so much of my time, her needs were immediate and consuming.  Some part of this, was your choice Liam, I know how powerless you must have felt.  I am sure you hurt, if the outside reflects the inside.

Debbie LeSurf’s Custody and Access Report said it all

Look at this picture note date, and picture of Liam above six months earlier.

 

I find this hard to look at, it hurts me  

 

I not longer have anger, i have no time for that, I have a lack of respect for Canadian Justice, it does not exist

is this just a bad dream

there has to be accountability  !  !  !

Look what they did to my boy, they stole the light in his eyes and his beautiful smile,

it only took the  British Columbia Family Justice System six months to do that. Should I sing you a verse of O Canada or tell you to go fuck yourself !

if at anytime you feel I am rude or vulgar, tell me what you would sound like if this were your situation

52 Posts and 34 Pages (darkened area under children’s picture on front page of Blog) consists of court details and documents, letters and general sundry detail, this journal has saved my life ……………………………. I had to put this out 

You can’t keep this shit inside, it is poison, it is my reality, a 4 year marriage takes away everything of meaning in life, how would you describe what this has done to MY CHILDREN 

This blog is close to what I would say is the the end, I will eventually tell this story in detail, but at present my task will be to find financial security, I am now 65 years and starting from scratch, excuse my self pity, I have lost a lot of time, with a child at risk in the streets, it has shown me how kick ass strong I am, this  certainly has brought out the best in me.

this is what it was for me.”

Watching the never ending pain of this addictive disease that steals one’s conscious contact with life’s reality and replaces it with delusional thought,

I wanted to isolate, as this was the effect Megan’s addiction had on me, it was eating a hole in my heart, all I need is to hear her voice, my anxious panic subsides and that is enough to change my demeanour  instantly, I now would rather talk to a stranger than family or friends. And it has been days since i last had contact with Megan

When I look back and ask how has this evolved to what we have here, it can be pinpointed to the devious actions of Steven N Mansfield and the Incompetence and in-compassionate Judge Jane Auxier, these pigs had an opportunity to make a difference in this child’s life. It is all about my choice of lawyer, I am responsible.

“So stick this in your head and run with it “

I was fighting for my own sanity, my sense of needing to be there for my Child at risk.. This was the driving force that occupied all my time and energy. There was a day that I felt, if this child is going to die, sooner would be better, that was a true thought, the hole in my heart seemed so large. The greatest surprise for me was I had brought these children back to each other and they will be together, only the two of them, together for a weekend. Wow. What joy this brings me, I sit here with a tears of joy and a lump in my throat, with this thought occupying all my thoughts,…………. my children together after all these years.  

I am now experiencing the joy of being a parent, no longer spend every day in worry. This was draining, nine years keeping this inside, so lonely, isolating and sad. They took every thing I had in this world mentally, financially and emotionally, it was like I just rolled over, I could not recover from this mental anguish of parental separation. The gifts given to me by my children have saved me from a certain death. The sobriety, a gift I had given Megan, turned out to be the greatest gift I could have given myself and a close second the swim, Liam provide this, now in my tenth year , healthy and concious, you will have to admit I am one persistent person, the discipline to consistently swim a non-stop mile, 2 to 3 times a week, this was my drug. 

When I was anxious or down, I swam. Did not need to talk, just swim. This was my way to find an attitude adjustment.

At fourteen,  Megan was in the streets of Victoria BC and had been for four months before I meet up with her and became aware of a cocktail of designer drugs, her sense of adventure, a child lost and definitely hurting. As I had said at that time “Megan you are to young to be drinking and drugging, her response ” you are one to talk, she said ” you are a heavy drinker.” interesting since Megan had never seen me drink?  Thought about this one and my response ,  I cried, had a deep look within and stated I will never drink again. This was my intention and it lasted for two hours, until I arrived back in Vancouver, where self pity had its way, I could not wait to get to a drink, my sadness and my hurt, you have no imagination of how this could feel unless you have had this experience. I was not ready for this, last saw Megan at age 11, sweet little girl, bright beyond her years, stubborn and playful, now 14 years and living in the street, homeless, what the fuck do you do as a parent. If at any moment, you think why did he not take her with him, do you have a chair and a large roll of duck tape. From this date forward I have not had a drink, you know I could not have handled the confusion or the depression,  if I had allowed drink to have a part in my life. Thank you Megan for this gift  

Missing indigenous women, I feel so bad for your families, your brothers and sisters, your moms and dads. I know your pain as my own pain allows me and the fact that you do not know whether your child is dead or alive, how sad, it sticks to you, it never lets go. At least I was some what aware of where Megan was, little comfort though, Megan and I were estranged for a period of close to 3 yrs. Now a rude awakening. Why was she in the streets, I did not know as this mother had alienated me. I had not even seen a picture or school report this was total alienation.

Now I get to find this

She was in the streets because her grandmother put her there, a 14 year old thrown into the street because she had a disagreement with her granddaughter, while her mother was out of the country for a two week stint, court ordered not to leave her children in the care of this individual unsupervised. So much for orders, she was bigger and knew so much better than all the incompitant judges in the British Columbia Provinial Family Court system. This grandmother had her sons, Megan’s Uncles, change the locks on the doors to the only home this child had, unbeknownst to Dad and like I earlier said unbeknownst to Mother. Megan had been in the streets from second week of January 2006 to May 13 2006 before Dad became aware. Called to attend Megan at her request by Randy Keyes, Senior Social worker at Ledger House, a division of Queen Alexandra Hospital for Children. Victoria BC

he asked ” Megan wanted to know if you still love her”  isn’t that sad. You know my answer

You may say,  what you say is your opinion, well that is why I produce facts

THESE ARE THE MOTHER’S OWN WORDS IN A FINAL LETTER TO MEGAN

Mother’s words to her daughter upon arriving back only to find her daughter living in the streets of Victoria, never feeling any reason to inform the Father of this situation, can you fucking believe this ……………………

Here is how this segment read:

Mother’s Words       see page Too Little ( darkened area at front of blog ) facts are the pages 

” Thinking that we all have responsibility for what actions caused what reactions, I made to you another statement that I want you to know I would change. At our meeting at the coffee shop you said” but the locks were changed.” I responded with ” but Gram was scared, scared of what might happen & is still scared”

Megan, that was your home, you had no access……………..& I was not there. I am so sorry.

I now look at that differently & would rather say to you, “how did that make you feel “

I can’t imagine”

“well”,

i can’t imagine the pain this 14 year old must have felt, could you imagine a grandmother putting her only granddaughter into the streets because they had a dissagreement. This still haunts me to this day, I cannot fathom this.

Let’s look at the past but not stare, as we have reached a new joy, Megan’s recovery from the depth of addiction, a place I always believe could be reached,  if I could continued with persistent contact and loved her unconditionally and she is learning to love herself.  Megan has never had a home since her grandmother discarded her and she has never spoken with her mother since, how sad, dad never gave up, not for one minute as he expressed his love for this child, which exceeded his own love of life

It was everyone’s fault but her’s, ” I CAN ONLY DESCRIBE this AS INSANITY “

YOU the British Columbia Law Society allowed this to happen, all for the money, where were your ethics and your integrity , Mansfield, Patison , Brown and the lowest piece of human stink Lex Reynolds, knew of neither ethics or integrity , you fucked up two beautiful children’s lives , not to mention my own 

what were my rights or did I have rights or do I have rights ???

Over nine long years 

hopefully Megan,  your pain will pass, we will never be free of this struggle, It sticks to you, that is life’s challenge

Megan I am so proud of you. You are such a gift and a gifted Child

and you feel bad for putting me through this experience, Megan you have shown me the strength of my unconditional love for you and none of this was ever your fault, you have always done your best. You are such a survivor, so strong.

I do not know Liam as the Adolescent, and certainly don’t know Liam as the young Man, remember the Conclusion to Debbie LeSurf’s Custody and Access Report  

To the PUBLIC 

I have pushed a lot of information in your direction, sorry if there is any confusion, I can explain

I look for Justice 

Megan turns 24 in two days, she is moving life forward, as I do, I will worry less about her as time passes, she probably requires emotional help, she is a driving force, and with out her, my life had no purpose, We are very close, as we have struggled together.  I believe it is called unconditional love. 

Liam and I struggle, We do not know each other, how does a boy get to know his Dad, when this man had no place in his life. How sad. This was Criminal !

I had 4 beautiful homes and this fucking stink referred to as  British Columbia FAMILY LAW took ALL and more than that they took my SPIRIT, Megan restored what the low life Steven N Mansfield and arrogant Incompitent Judge Jane Auxier took from Us.

Remember you assholes this was in my children best INTEREST ?

We Hurt,

 We will never Heal, this is our Past,

Where Do we Go From here 

Mel said it best in 2014

What’s really sad is the fact that separation happens every day yet the public has no knowledge on what really goes on. I have tried to bring these issues ‘to light’ as I think everyone should know the basics and prepare themselves for if that day ever comes.
More importantly, to teach people what they can do to protect & defend themselves without having to pay Divorce Lawyers. Most will suck you dry if given the chance & don’t seem to care who’s lives are destroyed in the process.
Saddest part is the fact that the Court is supposed to recognize the child(s) FIRST yet I have sat there and been shocked how little they do care of the welfare of the child.
Remember everyone…our Court Rooms are the PEOPLE’s Court Rooms and the Judge is supposed to be there to mediate & make decisions. That is taxpayer’s dollars for the most part! Yet Lawyers have no problem ‘draggin’ it out and wasting everyone’s time and money.
I’m looking foward to the day that my friend may pursue some civil charges against a Lawyer or two for what has happened to him.
I still wait for a Reporter(s) who has the ‘balls’ to do a story on Divorce Lawyers & our Divorce Laws.
A REAL story that affects people everyday.
Point the camera & shoot. I’m not afraid to tell the truth.
I’ve got the facts and the evidence to ‘back it’!  

Mel’s comments pertains to Divorce litigation, this was always only Custidy and Access litigation and look what this low life has done to my Children 

Ask Steven N Mansfield how his two children are faring.

William J

Court Order “Unauthorized practice “ Steven Neil Mansfield dba Bayshore Law Group

Aug 31, 2017 – Until such time as he becomes a member in good standing of the Law Society,. Steven Neil Mansfield doing business as Bayshore Law Group (“Mr. Mansfield”) is permanently prohibited and enjoined …

Read the post Steven N Mansfield the Stink that is the Bayshore Law Group

https://www.lawsociety.bc.ca/Website/media/Shared/docs/uap/2017-08-31-Mansfield-Injunction.pdf

Letter to Crown Prosecutor

Letter to Crown Prosecutor

I arrived in Montreal on Dec 13th 2013 the very date Megan was to have appeared on two charges, except she over slept and failed to attend, this resulted in warrants being issued, the crack addiction holds a court appearance with the same importance as a fleeting thought. As I became aware of this situation, now with warrants attached, I contacted (this young Jewish ass of a lawyer), her legal aid Council, and after a brief struggle with his resistance, we set a court appearance for Dec 20th 2013 this was intended to remove the warrants and to plead guilty to the two charges. Megan attended on this occasion with a great deal of my required assistance. It was at this appearance that it was decided Megan was to be sentenced on Jan 15th 2014.

On this Jan 15th 2014 appearance, a pre-sentence report was requested by this judge, seazed himself to Megan’s case and that he would like to see Megan for an appearance scheduled for April 15th 2014.

Megan had to this point been living in the streets of Montreal for seven years, the last 2 1/2 to 3 years dually addicted to crack cocaine and alcohol, my ability to assist my daughter’s special needs has been reduced by the wonderful Family Law system of British Columbia where my council thought it best to removed all my assets  elieving it was in the best interest of my children ? , now I struggle to stay in my children’s lives, they were struggling, with out employment for the past four years, I came to Montreal in a final attempt to save Megan’s life, she means so much more to me than life itself. .

( I did this with information from this Blog as the Judge wanted to know why Megan was in the Streets of Montreal,  drug addicted when she had someone in her life that loved her, as was apparent ) 

I assisted Megan’s probations officer with the material facts to produce a relevant and comprehensive pre-sentence report. It was at this time, after a conversation with Megan’s defence attorney and the Quebec Probation Services where I realized both had agreed Megan would likely receive community service.  You and  I know Community service would not work for a crack addict, this would serve no one’s best interest, certainly not Megan’s, maybe this Young Lawyer of this old Jewish Firm, Neil. I am referring here to Neil’s interest,  her council and an easy run for Megan’s Probations Officer. Megan had been living in an apartment building controlled by middle age black men at on Bullion St, So I believed it my duty to speak with Crown council, this is what I decided.  My belief was that Megan should be offered either 6 months closed recovery or 3 months incarceration.

On April 14, 2014 while Megan was doing a blast of crack cocaine out behind this old Jewish Firm, I proceeded to Neil’s office alone to discuss the pre-sentence report, upon my arrival Neil started in on me ” what the hell are you doing talking to the Crown Prosecutor ” and  ” I ‘m trying to get her off”. With attention to detail my response to him was, “I’m trying to save her life “.

( What her young Jewish lawyer really said was ” What the fuck do you think you are doing,  talking to the Crown” )

I had spoken with a senior member at the crown prosecutors office to express my concerns, this kind individual heard my concerns and I believe I conveyed what was in Megan’s best interests, he also stated he would call me back or have the crown prosecutor call me, this they did.  The following day Megan was offered a proposition from the Court where she was to make  a choice between recovery or  incarceration, and she chose recovery.

From April 15, 2014 to this point forward, Probation Services have seen Megan twice, along with a visit to a Hospital for an assessment and that was July 28th, as I quarried them on why this hadn’t done anything to this point, prior to going into Detox, they are fully aware that Megan is continuing her Crack habit and continues the same routine that created this situation in the first place.

On August 1st at 12:27 pm, I called Megan’s line and spoke with the Montreal Police who had stopped Megan with a quantity of Crack cocaine, I was unaware of the specifics regarding Megan’s upcoming detox and 6 month recovery program and brought to the officers attention that Megan was presently on probation, the officer feeling like he was doing Megan a disservice, reluctantly did not charge Megan for this breach of conditions as he had called Kelly Noel. I had provided him with her number. After calling Megan’s Probation Officer on this occasion and finding out there is no date for detox or recovery, I expressed my view that Quebec Probation Services have at this point failed my daughter, and described this failure much like that of a cat playing with a mouse. Megan’s Probation Officer is fully aware of the present situation and feels I am being unfairly critical of their service, as you are fully aware of the condition my daughter was and is in, as she has stood before the court on a number of occasions, nothing has changed from her habitation to her habit and this child is at a great risk to loose her life. I left a message with Megan’s Probation Officer to have her supervisor call me, I received that call and have no more information now that I had earlier except her response to my bringing up the latest seizure of a sizeable amount of Crack cocaine was “well she wasn’t charged” well maybe she should have been.

To Megan’s Probation Officer

Subject: Megan

I spoke with Megan today, and realize how stressed she is, this is the calm before the monthly storm, the welfare cheques will be sent and she will go hard for the next two weeks, at which point I go into deep concern for the damage I believe she is doing to her internal organs, and her brain. (Her Probation Officer ), you say well she has been doing this for seven year, yes but not the crack, it is getting move serious every month, her phone will be reconnected sometime in early June, I will go into worry again as I have, every month for the last two years, nothing different, except the stress of having theseconditions, attached to my daughter and living in the hell hole, she is living in, hurts me. Go visit her at her place and you may understand the urgency of a recovery program, crack addicts do not decide when the time is right, as it is never right, one more high, what does your book tell you. Lisette stated to me “go to Halifax and we will look after Megan”, well I am holding you to this, I hold you responsible for Megan’s life, as she is in your care, placed by the court and should anything happen to Megan, the Quebec Probations Services will be held accountable. I went to Montreal to save Megan’s life, and have been left with a feeling I have abandoned her, Megan is now at a greater risk that before and after all our talk ( Probation Officer) , I don’t believe you have the experience to deal with this form of addiction other than your book study, or Megan would not be treated in this manner, the other addicts in the house were all sleeping so Megan and my conversation had to be cut short, any discussion of recovery is out of the question. She is very animate about this, I am very ineffective for her from here. (On East Coast )

“My only interest is saving Megan’s life, not making other’s lives more difficult, would like to make my own life more peaceful. ” and be an example to my daughter. William J.

Nothing changes except the day. How frustrating. Life can be so harsh.

This is troublesome for me writing you as I have done my best to follow process and procedure always in my children’s best interest, not mine.

Today August 12th. 2014, Megan is unconscious as she has been for the last several days, every month has been the same, before the sentence and after the sentence, no difference. Except now criminal charge against her. She has a disease called addiction and I was of the belief the court would help instead they have hurt her by allowing her to remain in this addiction, they now are the enabler.
This is what I have come to expect not knowing whether this child is dead or alive. This is my only daughter and I fear for her life, Megan’s Probation Officer , in her wisdom and associates approval, has done little to move these court orders ahead as the judge intended. For me today I am out of sort as I feel so helpless.

Legal Aid Council and Probation Services Officer names replaced by descriptives as a courtesy 

This Crown Prosecutor responded to this letter, and reminded the Probation Services that this Judge’s Order was not to be taken lightly, and the Overnutritionalized Entitled Probation Officer was reminded of her duty, and from this process forward I was on my own as hell has no fury as a Quebec Probation Officer scorned.

THIS WAS MY CHARGE, not my choice but my duty as their Shepherd

Here we are, more than 10 years later. I have helped my daughter get back on track, as she had came off the rails . This was as a result of Grand mother throwing Megan into the street of Victoria BC, having her son Allan (Megan’s Uncle), change the locks on the doors to this 14 year old. All this happened while mother was chasing her new man back to Africa, as he had been deported. The court had ordered that the children not to be left with grandmother Prim unsupervised, so here again Mother is so much bigger than all the British Columbia Courts. This resulted in Megan’s life on the Street, angry and hurt where addiction and substance abuse was her only solution. Numbed the pain.

These children meant more to me than life itself. I now lived a life of internal panic and depression, I had always been able to kept a phone in Megan’s hand, called with never much time passing between attempts, I journaled continually, details are with the posts of this blog, it still hurts, I packed all my possessions, placed them in storage and headed for Montreal 2013, I had a fleeting thought that I may not survive this venture, but I could not continue living in Vancouver, my child’s addiction was my constant thought, that is an understatement, this was the chance I would have to take, and it was certainly a journey into the unknown. I will certify that, hind sight is twenty twenty and I have never looked back. In Montreal we found the Jurisdical wisdom expected from the wise, at the Palace of Justice.

With Megan’s re-set button pushed, I became awake and aware, that as Megan recovered so did I. This was humbling and so painful. Wow. How can I ever get relief.
All this time, I have my boy, Liam, who was kidnaped by his mother and the stink of her Jewish lawyer, all this in partnership with the Ministry. Again this twists me up inside when I realize this is my reality. Liam is now a beautiful young man. He appears to be doing well. He really shows no interest or energy to move our relationship forward as parental alienation has set well over time. Liam still lives at home with mother. The phone does not have the ability to truly create engagement or get to know this child abducted on April 1, 2005 as we are so many years later. I have only ever had a phone number and a postal box. This was the “April Fools” I will never forget. If the shoe were on the other foot, I would have gone to jail. All this shit and drama is over for me, I am a Man, an not a feminist like Justin Trudeau, I believe he’s wearing  Sophie’s pink panties, no we have a whole new set of rules here. Debbie LeSurf the drafter of this Custody and Access Report was spot on.

“ Jean appears to be strongly invested in maintaining control over Bill’s relationship with his children. It is very difficult to foresee a situation in which these children feel free to have a relationship with both parents when Jean is the primary parent.”

you were spot on Debbie !  (it was all for not)

and In conclusion : Mother know Best , this Boy did not need a Dad, he had his Mother. It is all to late now, the show is over, Liam will never know his dad. He will never known what he missed out on. I was a Dad who cared. I had so much love in my heart that the pain of having this child pulled out of my life, has left a permanent hole in my heart. We have our lives changed forever, never to be fixed.

I Hope this is not considered self pity. Just trying to move forward.
Life has joy today.
My daughter Megan’s recovery has allowed me recovery, such a surprise.

Happiness at last. Working, swimming, loving the growth Megan has achieved, she is funny, she is smart, this experience has left her very wise.

I tell Megan, I can take you out of the street. but I can’t take the street out of you.

Life has its way, and then there is always some small thing that remind me of your lose, Liam, this was my wake up.
It breaks my heart not knowing you. It was not to be, it is to bad for you and it is to bad for me. I have a hole in my heart as a result of this reality, it is what it is and I have moved on.
Megan, will visit soon, this is exciting.

Update
Megan came to visit, the vacation she so deserved (it was a dream come true for me). She accepts me as I struggle with the destruction caused by the Filth of the British Columbia Family Court and the Greedy Lawyers that propagate this System, remember it was all in the best interest of my Children in case there was any doubt.
I understood the magnitude of this sacrifice as I drove Megan to the airport tonight for her return home.
I am so proud !
I feel such hurt and need to heal.
Liam, We need time together, maybe that is something you don’t understand
….. Who knows.

I never realized how much Father’s Day hurt, until I received Liam’s text this last year. Happy Father’s Day Dad

I now need JUSTICE in a  Solution.

Steven N Mansfield you are the lowest PIECE of Human Stink alive, as Alexinder Reynolds is now Dead, your crime you allowed this mentally challenged woman to move my children out of the municipal area, to Victoria, this you partnered with David Patison, the opposing Council, THIS was nothing less than a CRIMINAL ACT overseen by the Incompetent Judge Jane Auxier, an absolutely disgusting financial and mental rape, destroying all remanence of my family, my finances, my mental state. This was all in the best interest of these very children, who’s lives you destroyed. This was not a divorce, this was an acrimonious custody and access case dragged out over 5 years. 

Wake the fuck up !!!! this is not Justifiable 

This shit show was a criminal act and needs address, do any of you have the balls 

 

THIS ALL CAME DOWN TO ONE FACTOR – I continue to reiterate  Steven Mansfield allowed my ex to move the children to Victoria from the lower mainland. With my continuing beckoning she has listed the house, she has sold the house, she is moving the children to Victoria this was all done in stages, it took at that time 90 to 120 days to sell. My calls, my emails all went unheeded. He was aware of this communication as messages were left with his legal secretary Rayanne, his response was Judge Auxier will move them back to the lower mainland. This was the critical component. In hind sight he could have made an ex parte application that would have prevented this, no he knew better. This was the double sided sword. You will note that within my application Auxier reference to having the children moved back to the lower mainland, he had requested this of the the Judge. He allowed this to go forward. I was being shut out of the children’s lives and my own Dr Mark Gelfer who had also been the children’s Doctor to, said I should move to Richmond, as the Bloated Pig Judge Coles, said i was too far from the Children to care for them “West Eighth Ave “ Vancouver. This is the single factor that created this irreversible situation. This all could have been stopped before it escalated to what it did. Mansfield was Responsible for this. I knew nothing of an ex parte order. Once out of the lower mainland I was now an exterior factor and the Jews took over ( Reynolds and Judge Higinbotham), you know what is most interesting, this would never have happened to a Jewish family, excuse me Sir you are Gentile, fodder for these Jews. We were supposed to be in front of a Judge Palmer, the ignorant stink Alexander Reynolds changed all that. This was not coincidental. You want to see a classic case of miss-justice look at this Victoria Family Court shit show, it was truly a Kangaroo Court. Mansfield had set the stage for this, which changed my life forever, my children’s lives, their inheritance associated with my financial destruction and most importantly the loss of their childhood.

The only just solution today is financial remuneration.

Take a look at the carnage he created and cared less.

“please note there will never be any actions involving my EX partner she was only their pawn”  i am completely indifferent to this individual  

The only Winners David Patison and Steven N Mansfield

Noted comment from   Ronak (Leena) Yousefi – The YLAW Group 

Hi William and thank you for your email.

As stated previously, I cannot assist due to conflict of interest. I have spoken with the Law Society as well and they have indicated that I cannot provide any advice or direction. I am sorry about the inconvenience.

Please contact the UBC Legal Clinic or Legal Aid for pro-bono advice and as they may be able to assist you free of charge.

I am happy to hear that Megan is doing well.

Take care of yourself.

Yours Truly,

 

“ This is what it looks like to get blown off. “

William j.

A Father’s Day Card like no Other.

this said it all.   what  a wonderful memory !

Proud to be your Dad,

(Fathers Day  2006 ) 

Megan,  Father’s Day 2017 we have not looked back, we have experienced a journey together like no other. Megan, you bring so much joy to my life.

you are the one that know what this Father’s Day means, and that works for me.

Father’s Day is a day with painful thoughts and memories.

Received a cheerful call from Liam this morning.  “Happy Father’s Day” what can I say, move on hide the hurt.

Liam this Day is painful for me.  What can I say. I gave it all and that wasn’t enough. I lost the boy I loved, I have been given a few crumbs over the years. I believe I have seen Liam maybe 5 times since he was 11 years old. Abducted by his mother on a school break, never to be part of Dad’s life again, I have had a phone number and a postal box since that date.

This breaks my heart and will until the day I die, and beyond.  

 I was a good dad. I was an unselfish dad, my children meant more to me than Life itself.

This is my truth 

I have the team of the greedy Steven N Mansfield and the incompetent Judge Jane Auxier coupled with the prayer partners Reynalds and Higginbotham that partnered with the Ministry of Children and Mothers to thank. 

This group did not knew if the Ass was bored of punched.

It is all about Money, you fxxking pigs

you destroyed my children’s lives, not to mention mine.

“all of you, fathers yourselves’. ” 

Liam I wish I had of had the opportunity to be there for you.

How hurtful !

This can not be fixed.

All in the best interest of the Children.

Do you believe that.

Financial retribution will be the only resolve.

What can I say ” just feel like breaking out in another verse of O Canada”

 

This is my Canada it is Upside down  

Auxier’s response ” File an application “

 

Attention Judge Auxier

Your Honour,

I receive your response to my request yesterday, no more than I expected, file an application, it is too late for that,, as I believe it is to late for Liam and Megan, they have been damaged permanently, I would not serve Laura Jean Wood anything, I would have absolutely nothing to do with her, total indifference, serving this woman has never resulted in protecting these children. I thought your Orders were clear, but it is now apparent that they were only words, that meant nothing, there were interim orders in front of these, but your orders were the orders referred to, throughout this extremely painful ordeal, this woman was bigger than your court and all other Judges that I stood before, there have never been orders followed or enforced. Why was I to expect that your orders would hold weight, at Mansfield’s request you refused to cease yourself to your orders and as a result, Liam and Megan have suffered irreparable damage that will be with them the remaining years of their lives. You saw what was happening, You recognized it for what it was and You spoke to it in Your Reasons for Judgment (June 10,2003), last paragraph to Ms Wood .

{46} “Ms. Wood must be made aware that it is an offence to fail to comply with the terms of this order. She must be aware that further non-compliance might well lead to a finding that it would be in the children’s best interest to be with their father –i.e. the court could well find that the harm caused to these children by her ongoing refusal to comply with court orders and to encourage their relationship with their father outweighs the concerns I have expressed about uprooting them their present situation.”

All that happened was that you spoke to this and no one made any provisions to protect these children.

Mansfield allowed this situation to escalate, allowing her to move the children to Victoria, I still have the dated e-mails sent to Mansfield, “she is moving” “she is selling the house” “she has sold the house” no we will wait to bring this in front of the courts, do you have any idea of how long, how painful, this wait is for the non-custodial parent not seeing his children. Now I am aware of why, he would not have had the opportunity to take as much flesh as he would if he hadn’t allowed it to escalate. We could have done an Ex parte’ application to have stopped her; all of this is too little to late as I have experienced British Columbia Family Law at it finest. Realizing this group is populated by filthy social leaches that prey on human emotion. I put my children and their safety ahead of money; this has turned out to be the greatest mistake I could have made. Your courts allowed the filthy social leaches to take every asset I had, to attempt to help my children and they applied every dirt legal trick to deceive, distort and destroy any semblance of truth, resulting in hurt for these children, there actions were like a piranha feeding frenzy

I am attaching Custody and Access Report (June 22, 2004) one year later,

Summary and Recommendations:

“Jean appears to be strongly invested in maintaining control over Bill’s relationship with his children. It is very difficult to foresee a situation in which these children feel free to have a relationship with both parents when Jean is the primary parent.”

Debbie Lesurf (2005)

And

The Agreement Made in Mediation March 16, 2005, the following year, this provided Ms. Wood the opportunity to kidnap Liam under the guided eye of the filthy inexcusable activities of the lawyer acting for this mother and the presence of the Ministry, her last act of defiance, this last act cost me my home and everything financial in this world. The Ministry of Children and Family stood and allowed this to happen. I had at this point spent everything I had and the human pigs of a lawyer on both sides wasted time in court displays of self-ricous mockery. At which point when my funds finished (that’s everything I had) they fell back on your orders isn’t that an ironic circle.

Look at this Picture of Liam, taken in dad custody Sept 04/ to April 05, and second shot 6 month later Sept 05, hard to believe. Would this lawyer not have had an obligation to compel his client to comply with the Mediated Agreement, I was so naive to believe she would comply, no not her, she could do what she liked, if it were a male he would have been thrown in jail. I can not believe that orders not complied with have not consequences? Megan was thrown to the Wolves not an exaggeration. I have nothing left and Megan is in the streets of Montreal at the present time dually addicted, I have had contact with Megan for the last 5 years sometimes more than others and this does little to help this little girl except that she is aware of my love for her, If you had the opportunity to speak to this little one, you would see how bright she is. (picture of Megan taken May 2011, second small shot Dec 10th 2011) she is hurting and it causes me a great deal of pain, Liam and I have little to no ability to a father/son relationship as he does not express himself well, holds most pain inside and Ms Wood saw to it again, as if in Liam’s best interest, to move him to Calgary in 2007 again you can well imagine father was conferred with in any form. That should put an end to an opportunity for Liam to have a relationship with his dad. I now have a phone # and PO Box #.

Thanks Your Honor for all your care. I can not handle it any longer and feel you can have it back, as you had the only opportunity to make a difference in this sad sorted affair. You say file an application in the Court, I gave everything I had. I have nothing left and can not carry this pain any longer, my heart is heavy and I am financially destroyed with little to no opportunity to recover financially or find meaningful work at the age of 61, What could I have done to have created a better outcome???? Megan is lost and in the streets of Montreal a dually addicted alcohol and crack addict and you and your group has taken everything I had and more. Megan needs help and I have nothing left to help her. She is all yours. This wonderful mother has done nothing for this little girl in 7 years. Have someone let me know how this court has served these children’s best interest, but rather the greedy interests of the Legal Society. I search for this answer? I cannot believe you are aware of what goes on here, I believe the Province of British Columbia should be held to accountability for their part in this sad state of affairs and lack of action.

I’m tapping out.

Respectfully,

Bill

 

ps as you can see I went into the Streets of Montreal found my child and saved her life because you couldn’t give a fuck. 

Look at what they did to my boy. Liam’s letter reaches out to dad.

Do you know what that feels like ? 

Dad was rendered Powerless !!!

I cried when I read this letter today so many years later 

Cleaning up paper here in Halifax,  preparing for my return to Vancouver, this is Father’s Day weekend 2016, will hear from both Megan and Liam today , this will certainly not be mentioned, allow me to write as it eases my pains of the past, Megan and I are close, as I was able to successfully act as her shepherd, this Incompetent Judge Jane Auxier and Steven N Mansfield are responsible, why did no one care enough to help, What was it that was in my Children’s best interest ?, I gave everything I had financially first and secondly everything mentally to this stink and received nothing in return, the half wit of a mother knew no better. Talk about insane, I will never get over this, Auxier you arrogant ass, Liam will not recovered,  I do my best, to be what, Dad. ? That I was not allowed to be, he will call me Sunday,. . . . .

Look at what my boy had to endure

I start on my journey home shorty with my Megan, I am blessed. Megan and Liam will see each other for the second time in 10 years soon, Look at the damage this fucked up British Cloumbia Family Law ( the Incompetent Judge Jane Auxier and her pretty boy,  my own greedy Stink of a Lawyer, Steven N Mansfield)
arrogantly ravaged these Children’s rights  – this is unforgivable.

READ THIS LETTER

Letter to Dad from Foster home

To Dad

i want to be home Mon 2004 June 21

Things I don’t like ;

  • .I don’t like how the other kids act,eat and swear. I don’t need the police coming to the house every week.
  • i don’t like the food in my house (foster care) I eat vegetables. I don’t eat pizza pops, lucaurs chrims ( ? ), cinnamon toasted chrunch, mini pizzas that is garbage and they telling me that I can’t bring my own food
  • I don’t like how they (the Ministry) tell me it is just like a family /some family, then they tell me to go away you, have to stay in your room all day. I have been here for 2 months that is a long time and playing outside they tell me to come in as soon as he is outside ( it appeared they had a child with anger issues and Liam would not be aloud out if he was outside)
  • I don’t like how long I am here for. I need to stay here for the first week of my summer vacation to Friday the 9th that’s crazy ! The time after 8 O’clock I don’t like to be disturbed.

This is where we were to experience the final financial circumcision of this Gentile by these prayer partners Alexander Reynolds and Judge Higgenbotham all in the best interest of  my boy. We were never to know Judge Palmer, originally set to hear. Please remember, Megan had been successfully alienated from Dad, by the costodially parent by September of 2004, Liam was placed with Dad, he had an interest in his relationship with Dad, so between his mother and her lawyer, the now dead Lex Reynolds, he was abducted.

Read Auxier’s conclusion in her reasons for judgement titled Liam. He believed there should be a ramp between Mom’s house and Dad’s house and he could come and go as he pleased. 

 Wasn’t too be. 

“this Blog (afatherspain.com) has received well over 10,000 + visits since it has been published, March 19, 2013, how satisfying and the Post that get’s the most attention  – Steven N Mansfield the Stink that is the Bayshore Law Group- this has received more than half of all these visits, this has eased the pain knowing there is power in the pen. I now look at the structure of parental alienation, a separate issue, it is a truth backed by fact.  This human pig (Mansfield) if you can believe it has two children of his own, Jackson and Annie. He Super Sized this deal by allow my X to move my children to Victoria, he had the ability to stop this, if you can believe that, how fucked up. What a piece of Human Garbage, mine is not to hate, dame hard  !!

Purging this stink has allowed me the internal strength to continue to give it all and to go after Megan, in the street of Montreal. You have that story, funny thing as Megan began recovering,  so did I.  Ya know when you give a gift, sometimes you get a bigger gift in return. Kids.jpgThis is the only justice these children will ever get, I am so honoured to have been privileged to be their Dad.

 Megan and Liam, I love you more than life it self, I gave it all I had financially and I would give my life if I could reverse your hurt ” 

William  J.

The Court was their Theatre, my Children were Their Props

FOLLOW THIS DETAIL !!!!!!!!!!!!! Take a close look at this shit show

Look at the billable material created by this Stinking Social Leach Mansfield, my own lawyer’s intentional destruction of my Childrens inheritance and my financial and mental wellbeing, all in my Children’s best interest? This fucking hometown boy had no intention to assist the best interests of my Children, here was a dad who loved his children more than life, take a close look at the Mansfield/ Patison game. And that is exactly what this was, who profited at my children expense, Steven N Mansfield and David Patison, and in part overseen by the Incompetent Judge Jane Auxier. What is so fascinating that you can follow this stink from beginning date Megan’s 7th Birthday Feb 3 1999, to June 3rd 2003,  I have all the material, and after publishing this, I will be able to show most of the letter detail and determine the letter cost showing you the intent, this is where MacLean used my children as his fodder to support his cause, which cretainly was not in Megan and Liam’s best interest and the path proceeded down was in the best interest of Lorne Mac Lean and Steven Mansfield. Look at what they create. Talk about Drama Queens ! The Court was their Theatre, my Children were the Props. Why were my Children punished to feed Steven N Mansfield’s greed? 

I will interject  with the Peter Brown Show that was not pretty, and Russel Tretchuk service was standard fair, but important to calculate as to express total figures.

I will also attempt to locate the e-mail’s I sent relating to the sale of her property to provide that sequence of dates, this will entertain, as this was another shit show.

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Invoice Ng.: 02-124
TO ALL PROFESSIONAL SERVICES RENDERED HEREIN IN CONNECTION WITH THE ABOVE NOTED MATTER from December 11, 2001 to the present date including:
To initial consultation with client; to various telephone attendance, written correspondence, emails and meetings with client; to receipt and review of letter from Mr. Paterson dated December 13, 2001; to meeting with client on January 7, 2002; to letter to Dr. Gelfur dated January 7, 2002; to meeting with client on January 10, 2002; to preparing Authorizations; to letter to Queen Alexandria Centre for Children’s Health dated January 14, 2002 enclosing Authorization; to letter to BC Children’s Hospita,1 dated January 14, 202 enclosing Authorization; to letter to St. Joseph’s Hospital dated January 14, 2002 enclosing Authorization; to letter to Dr. Ainsworth dated January 14,, 2002 enclosing Authorization; to letter to Dr. Elterman dated January 14, 2002 enclosing Authorization; to letter to Dr. Luciuk dated January 14, 2002 enclosing Authorization; to letter to Dr. Leader dated January 14, 2002 enclosing Authorization; to meeting with client on January 16, 2002; to letter to the registry dated January 22, 2002; to preparing Authorizations for Ms. Wood’s execution; to letter to Mr. Paterson dated January 25, 2002 enclosing Authorizations; to receipt and review of facsimile from client; to letter to Mr. Paterson dated February 5, 2002; to further letter to Mr. Paterson dated February 5, 2002; to letter to Queen Alexandria Centre for Children’s Health dated February 6, 2002; to letter to Dr. Luciuk dated February 6, 2002; to receipt and review of letters frorfi BC Children’s Hospital dated February 7, 2002; to letter to Mr. Paterson dated February 18, 2002; to letter to Dr. Luciuk dated February 19, 2002; to letter to Mr. Patersoin dated March 5, 2002; to letter to Mr. Paterson dated March 12, 2002; to letter to Mr. Paterson dated March 13, 2002; to letter to Mr. Paterson dated March 14, 2002; 4 receipt and review of letter from Mr. Paterson dated Match 14, 2002; to letter to M. Paterson dated March 15, 2002; to further letter to Mr. Paterson dated March 15, 2002; to receipt and review of letter from Mr. Paterson dated March 18, 2002; to receipt and review of letter from Mr. Paterson dated April 2, 2002 enclosing executed Authorizations; to letter to Dr. Eltennan dated April 4, 2002 enclosing Authorization; to letter to St. Joseph’s Hospital dated April 4, 2002 enclosing Authorization; to letter to BC Children’s Hospital dated April 4, 2002 enclosing Authorization; to letter to Di. Leader dated April 5, 2002; to scheduling trial dates of May 8 and 9, 2002; to prepari
and filing Praecipe; to letter to client dated April 9, 2002; to letter to Mr. Paterson dated April 9. 2002 enclosing Praecipe; to receipt and review of letter from Mr. Paterson dated April 11,2002; to letter to client01
letter to Mr. Paterson dated June: 5, 2002; to receipt and review of letter from J 4r. Paterson dated June 6, 2002; to receipt and review of letter from Mr. Paterson dated June 17, 2002; to preparing a Form 91 and to letter to Mr. Paterson dated June 28, 2002 enclosing same; to receipt and review of letter from Mr. Paterson dated July 8, 2002; Ito letter to Mr. Paterson dated July 11, 2002 enclosing entered Order of Judge Tweed e pronounced May 8, 2002; to receipt and review of letter from Mr. Paterson date July 18, 2002; to receipt and review of email from client dated July 22, 2002; to letter to *r. Paterson dated August 7, 2002; to further letter to Mr. Paterson dated August 7, 2002; Ito letter to Mr. Paterson dated August 20, 2002; to letter to Mr. Paterson dated August ‘ 1, 2002; to receipt and review of letter. from Mr. Paterson dated August 21, 2002; to meeting with client re: swearing Financial Statement; to letter to Mr. Paterson da ed August 22, 2002; to preparing and filing a Notice of Motion; to letter to Mr. Paters n dated August 30, 2002 enclosing Notice of Motion and Financial Statement; to letter to Mr. Paterson dated September 12, 2002; to letter to Mr. Paterson dated September 17, 2002; to receipt and review of letter from Mr. Paterson dated September 17, 2002; jto preparing and filing a Praecipe; to letter to Ms. Wood dated September 19, 20 2 enclosing Praecipe; to meeting with client on October 1, 2002; to preparing Affidavit and to meeting with client on October 2, 2002 to swear same; to preparing a Notice of Motion and to letter to Mr. Paterson dated October 4, 2002 enclosing Notice of Moti?n and Affidavit; to letter to Ms. Wood dated October 11, 2002; to meeting with client ?n October 16, 2002; to preparation for and attendance at application on October 17, 2002; to drafting Order; to letter to Ms. Wood dated October 21, 2002; to letter to client dated October 21, 2002; to reporting to client; to all other telephone attendances, conferencjes and correspondence necessary on your behalf:
OUR FEES ($7,500.00
TAXABLE DISBURSEMENTSTOTAL FEES, DISBURSEMENTS & TAXES

IN ACCOUNT WITH
BAYSHORE LAW GROUP

June 6, 2003 File No.: 019-025 Business#: 872223565 Invoice No.: 03-073
Mr. Bill
Dear Mr.
Re: Family Matters
TO ALL PROFESSIONAL SERVICES RENDERED HEREIN IN CONNECTION WITH THE ABOVE NOTED MATTER from October 24, 2002 to the present date including:
To meeting with client on November 20, 2002; To letter to Registry dated November 21, 2002; To letter to client dated November 21, 2002; To letter to Registry dated November 27, 2002; To letter to Registry dated December 4, 2002;
Teo drafting letter to JC Word Assist on December 6, 2002; To drafting letter to Registry dated January 2, 2003; To letter to Registry dated January 2, 2003; To facsimile to agents on January 8, 2003;
To preparing and filing Notice of Motion, Application to Obtain an Order and Application to Change
or Cancel and Order;
To letter to Ms. X dated January 15, 2003 enclosing application material;
To receipt and review of letter from Mr. Paterson dated January 30, 2003;
To letter to Registry dated January 31, 2003; To facsimile to agents on January 31, 2003;
To letter to Mr. Paterson dated February 3, 2003;
To preparation for and attendance at hearing on February 4, 2003;
To receipt and review of letter from Mr. Paterson dated February 6, 2003;
To preparing and filing Praecipe;
To letter to Mr. Paterson dated February 11, 2003; To letter to client dated February 11, 2003;
To drafting letter to Mr. Paterson on February 12, 2003; To drafting letter to client on February 12, 2003; To organizing file material;
To revising letter to Mr. Paterson on February 14, 2003;
To assistant’s telephone attendance with client on February 17, 2003;
To revising letter to Mr. Paterson; To preparing and revising letter to FMEP dated February 14, 2003;
To assistant’s telephone attendances with client on February 19, 2003;
To letter to Mr. Paterson dated February 24, 2003;
To assistant’s telephone attendance with client on February 28, 2003;
To assistant’s telephone attendance with client on March 6, 2003;
To letter to Mr. Paterson dated March 6, 2003;
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To assistant’s telephone attendance with Registry on April 14, 2003;
To assistant’s telephone attendance with client on April 22, 2003;
To telephone attendance with client on May 1, 2003;
To receipt of telephone message from client on May 9, 2003;
To letter to Mr. Paterson dated May 15, 2003;
To receipt and review of email from client and to reply email to client on May 16, 2003;
To receipt and review of letter from Mr. Paterson dated May 15, 2003 enclosing Written Submissions;
To receipt and review of facsimile from Mr. Paterson dated May 20, 2003 enclosing last page of Written Submissions;
To assistant’s telephone attendance with Mr. Paterson’s office on May 20, 2003;
To review of Respondent’s Submissions, to telephone attendance with client and to preparing Reply Submissions and to letter to Registry dated May 23, 2003 enclosing same;
To telephone attendance with client on June 3, 2003; to receipt and review of email from client and to reply email to client on June 3, 2003;
To preparing account;
To reporting to client;
To all other telephone attendances, conferences and correspondence necessary on your behalf:
TOTAL TIME:
Steven N. Mansfield: Assistant’s Time:
OUR FEES
LESS COURTESY REDUCTION NET FEES
TAXABLE DISBURSEMENTS
This detail will follow

$9,191 PAID FROM FUNDS  (part of the continuing billing process) in excess of $ 100,000

What could I have done, to influence a different result ?

This was my sworn AFFIDAVIT on January 14th 2004

Auxier was a Joke,  not a Judge  

These assholes could care less, Auxier had achieved her purpose, an opportunity to Written Reasons for Orders and Mansfield was to steal as much as he could get away with of my assets as they were fair play and he now was paid in full.  

Look at the mess this Incompetent Judge left these Children in. Criminal ! 

This shows how well the Incompetent Judge Jane Auxier’s Orders were followed with in the first 6 months

NOTHING CHANGED  except my financial status and mental health ( watching my children struggle )

(Please note date of application to Vancouver Court JANUARY 2004- and Children’s removal APRIL  27th 2004) 

This Affidavit started like this  

(what you do not see is my evidence, believe me I had that. Here we go 

I was 53 years of age, born October 3, 1950.

The respondent and I were married on August 4, 1990 and were divorced by
the order of Mr. Justice Vickers pronounced June 22, 1999. There are two
children of our former marriage namely Megan born February 3,
1992 (“Megan”) and Liam born August 3, 1993 (“Liam”)

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Now shown to me and attached as exhibit “A” to this my affidavit are the Reasons for Judgment and Orders of the Honourable Judge J. Auxier which were entered June 11,2003. Since the order, I have seen my daughter Megan on two occasions. The first was for a family holiday August 6, 2003 returning August 19, 2003. The second visit was September 6 when I took her to a picnic at her school in Victoria. I spent the following day with both children in Victoria I haven’t had access to Megan since.

I spoke to Megan briefly on the phone the day after we visited her only comment to me was “You think you won, don’t you. Well, you only half won, we didn’t have to move back to Vancouver!” This was her response to my access the day before, which is ordered by the court, and her understanding of the order which precipitated it. I have never discussed the court proceedings with Megan.

. Since mid September, my telephone access to Megan has been denied.

From that visit in September until November 28, 2003, I had no access to Megan. On November 28, 2003 Megan was coming to see me with Liam and had some kind of fit when she arrived with her mother at the passenger pick up area of the Tsawwassen ferry terminal. Liam came over to me and Megan was on the floor with her mother hovering over her giving me dirty looks as if caused this and told me to get out of there. I left with Liam and again had no access to Megan.

Our holiday in August was to a cottage near Halifax. We had a lot of fun and both children were great to be with. There no behaviour problems or acting out whatsoever. Now shown to me and attached as exhibit “B” to this my affidavit, are photographs taken at the cottage in Nova Scotia.

In Mid September, when Liam was visiting he was casually elucidating about his
life and commented to me that he “couldn’t understand Megan. She has fun
when she’s with us and when she gets home she has to not have had fun—she
pretends she hates being with us.”
On November 20, 2003 I was talking to Liam and asked to talk to Megan and Liam stated he wasn’t allowed to call her for me. That I’m not allowed to talk to her.
Now shown to me and attached as exhibit “C” to this my affidavit, is an email dated November 24, 2003, I sent Jean stating, I needed to be able to plan my Christmas and if there was to be any more problems with access I would sell my home in Richmond and move to Victoria and apply to the court to have the primary residence of the children changed.

Prior to my moving to Richmond in 2001 Megan had no problems with being with me and my move to the Richmond residence was at the suggestion of the doctor so I would be closer to the kids.

1 would suggest Megan’s supposed suicidal episode in Early October, 2001 was precipitated by being uprooted from her home in Richmond and being placed without her family and father in Victoria. Her Grandmother who was taking care of her is very negative about her relationship with me and it’s possible that without this move she wouldn’t be experiencing nearly as many problems.

Now shown to me and attached as exhibit “D” to this my affidavit, is the affidavit of Bernard who I had asked to take Liam to Victoria as he was going there to visit his mother and this would save me over five hours of travelling. Liam’s uncle Mike (Jean’s Brother) had arrived with Jean , Liam’s mother, to KICK MY ASS. This was to happen in front of my son.

Madam Justice Auxier’s decision Paragraph 40 states “Jean has extended family to assist her with child care while she is working.” I do not anymore believe this arrangement is in the best interests of my children. A police report was filed in 2001 with Sgt. Hubbard, Saanich PD file 2001-476 alleging Primrose (grandmother) assaulted Liam. This woman is part of the Extended family and support group alienating my children from me. Michael, Primrose’s son and Jean’s brother, who is going to “kick my ass” is also one of the children’s extended family and a caregiver when Jean is working.
Now shown to me and attached as exhibit “E” to this my affidavit, is another Police report dated 03/11/30 at 20:37 hrs. The police were called by Primrose when Megan was supposedly hysterical and out of control. The supplemental report Page 1 last paragraph is quite explicit again with “Megan’s mother disagreeing with the court ordered visitations with Megan’s father and she claims that Megan experiences these outbursts whenever the issue occurs”
That my daughter Megan is now living with Primrose not Jean and this is not in compliance with the order of the Honourable Judge Auxier.

At this time the children are not living together as stated in Paragraph 39 of the decision of the Honourable Judge Auxier.

On January 13, 2004, I phoned Oakland’s Elementary Shool and talked to Ms. Karine Tregear who is Liam’s homeroom teacher. Ms. Tregear expressed concern over the amount of time Liam has missed school recently.

I gave Liam and Megan a Telus “Call Me Card” to allow them unlimited phone access without any financial burden to the phone they are at. I asked Liam why he wasn’t calling me and he stated when he is at his grandmother’s he is not allowed to phone me. Also his mother now has call display and when my number shows, the calls are not answered or are forwarded to the voicemail. Calls are answered when I use call block (*67). Liam is not allowed to answer the phone anymore. I have not talked to my daughter since mid September and when talking to Liam, I asked to speak to Megan, Liam stated he wasn’t allowed to call her when I am on the phone. This also is contrary to F aragraph 42.7 of the decision of the Honourable Judge Auxier.

Most, if not all, of my phone calls to Liam are monitored by his mother, Jean
and Liam cannot talk freely to me. If we talk about a subject that Jean
doesn’t like, she will interrupt the call and tell me or Liam off and end the phone
call  I am constantly concerned about the treatment the children receive when they return to their mother as she will grill them mercilessly to try and find anything she can about our time together. I am not concerned about my actions at anytime but am concerned about the damage done to the children by her actions. Very seldom will I ask anything of the children regarding their life at their mother’s house and if the children mention anything in conversation, I accept what they say without questioning them.

Paragraph 46 of Justice Auxier’s decision states in part “the court could well find that the harm caused to these children by her ongoing refusal to comply with court orders and to encourage their relationship with their father outweighs the concerns I have expressed about uprooting them from their present situation.”

I firmly believe that the time is right to allow me to care for my children. My daughter Megan had no episodes of any kind while she was with me on holiday. On the contrary, at night she would call out from another room to be assured I was still there. She would also asked me to come to her room to rub her back to comfort her.

Now shown to me and attached as exhibit “F” to this my affidavit, is a consultation dated 21 Oct, 2001 from the respondent’s book of documents, item 5. I refer to the last paragraph of page 2 which states “Megan was noted to show significant screaming episodes on entering the Emergency Room, and was quite upset. She was seen by Dr.Beliveau, who mentioned that Megan should stay in hospital, and she settled down immediately.” I believe Megan settled down immediately because she knew she was safe and would be away from the stressors applied by the mother and grandmother.
I swear this affidavit in support of my application to have the Primary Residence
of the children changed to the residence of their father, William J.

This application was never heard, as Ministry of Children and Mothers stepped in prior to this happening and took the children. Lex Reynolds, my now X’s new lawyer, over the next period of time had this Application moved to Victoria from Vancouver, for all purpose, big mistake. 

HELL HAS NO FURRY let me introduce my X 

have you seen animals that eat their own, take a second look here

The SHIT SHOW continued  

nothing hurts more than being denied access to those helpless lives, you love more than life, with the addition that this love is also unconditional

William

Letter from the CHILDRENS, Mother’s Brother, to the British Columbia Court

  • I will throw this letter in your direction, from the Brother of the Children’s Mother written to the Court.

January 18, 2004
To Whom it may concern,

Dear Sir or Madam,
I am writing in response to another in a continuous string of cases brought against my sister. Jean , regarding the custody and support her children. My name is Allan Wood. her older brother. I have assumed the amassed debt of the previous actions. All of these cases have been initiated by her ex-husband, William, in an attempt to disrupt her life and the children’s, as well as to reduce his financial commitment in the raising of the children.
When my sister could no longer afford to retain lawyers to fight the ongoing court hearing I would assume to financial responsibility. A clearing of payments to a legal firm oif $5,500 was paid in November 2002 along with a transfer of previous bills from a friend of my sister’s ($24,000) later that month, An additional $5,000 was covered in April 2003 in the last action initiated by Mr.William
There has been a lot of time and money spent in an attempt to keep the children in a physically and mentally healthy environment. There must come a time when the emotional and financial drain on my sister and her children stops and they can live there life’s without the fear of harassment court cases.
Yours truly.
Allan

” I WILL LET YOU KNOW WHO THIS ASSHOLE IS “ it was this individual who with the assistance of his younger brother, Michael, Uncles to my children Megan and Liam , who at the request of their Mother, the Children’s Grandmother changed the locks on the doors  of the only home this child, Megan had. while her mother was out of the country, in Nigeria. That story is not mine, I will tell you, the children were court ordered not to be left in the Grandmother’s care unsupervised. Here we have the children, Megan and Liam left in Grandmothers  care unsupervised while their Mother was out of the country for two weeks. Now we have Grandmother getting into a verbal display with her Granddaughter,  a Child, that resulted in a 70 year old supposed care giver ( acting like a 7year old) putting her Grandchild out into the streets, unbeknownst to Dad ( who lives in Vancouver (1hr and 35 min away)  and obviously unbeknownst to their Mother, a 13 years old, is put into the streets of Victoria to fend for her self two weeks before her 14th birthday (Jan 2005) to this date Megan has never returned home, this Uncle Allan,  that has written this  letter to the  BC courts, changed the locks on the Doors of Megan’s home, preventing her access. This happened 2 years, to within a week of this letter to the courts. It appears the thought was, get Dad out of the picture so we can abuse the children without his interference. This Ass, who didn’t  not knows whether his own ass, was bored, punched or countersunk, seemed to forget the Father (Me) had some part in the health and welfare of these children’s lives, he fathered them. This Wood family knew so much better than all the Judges in the British Columbia Courts.

In the end the partner of Alexander Reynolds lawyer, Judge Higginbotham,  processed my children in the best interest of their mother, In the Provincial Family Court of Victoria, BC

 

I had Trudi Brown’s pleadings file, my council, I guess by mistake, that in this pleadings file,  my council , I read stated  on the the 31st of July 2005, that it was agreed between, Brown, Reynolds , that this would require 5 day and that the first 3 would be August 16th, 17th and 18th. We would be in front of a Judge Palmer, this did not happen, Reynolds  had his way and this was now to be infront of Judge Higginbotham, his partner. What might Judge Palmer have looked like in the interest of my children ?

All those involved Mansfield, Reynolds, Higginbotham were fathers themselves, unforgivable.

As stated earlier in my Blog, the Stench of this Lawyer Alexander Reynolds, co-partner with the Ministry of Children and Family, more appropriately the Ministry of Children and Mothers, still fills the air of Victoria British Columbia. 

Sept 2014 Megan found recovery after nine year of hurt, living in the streetshomeless.

We have found recovery,  that is Megan and Dad.

Dad had been destroyed financially, mentally and emotionally by your fucked up Canadian Family Justice process, would you like me to sing “O Canada”  for you.

Dad has gotten his life back after 9 long years of pain associated with a little girl’s hurt and his unconditional love for her, this child at risk.. This experience would be no different if a hurricane, or if landslide were to take everything you owned, only this is more emotionally severe and more persistently painfully than a death, you get over death, sometime hard to believe at the time, but true.

I am not selfish,  nor self centred,  probably to much of an idealist to realize, Stink like Steven N Mansfield exists, who ‘s only intention was to take Megan and Liam’s inheritance, for Jackson and Annie, his children, no he is too selfish for that, it was for his greedy needs., only he also took Megan and Liam’s childhood, Liam has been without his sister, who protected him to a fault for the last nine years. How sad

This was my every day

“The only thing on my mind, when I woke and the last thing on my mind when I shut my eyes at night “

MEGAN

she is beautiful, bright, a child full of wonder, a dream building for this dad, where every day is a gift. 

              I am so proud of this Beautiful Young Woman, my Princess. Megan Raquel

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A great big Thank you

to Dans La Rue  Daryl and Chris you were God sent.

To Chez Pops

if you are unaware of the Dans La Rue ( In the street ) founder Father Emmet John better know as Chez Pops (google it)

November 11, 2015  I will Post the final letter, sent January 2006 from the Mother to her Daughter on her return to this Country  …………………………………………………

can you imagine this woman’s attempted parental alienation of her exhusband resulted in her alienating her only daughter, I can’t imagine that, Wow

you know I feel nothing except complete indifference 

i don’t hate her, I feel sorry for her.

Canadian Children’s Rights Council

The parental alienation is a disorder that arises primarily in the context of child-custody disputes. Its primary manifestation is the child’s campaign of denigration against a parent, a campaign that has no justification. It results from the combination of a programming (brainwashing) parents indoctrinations and the child’s own contributions to the vilification of the target parent. The alienation usually extends to the non-custodial parent’s family and friends as well.

A better example could not exist  

Megan’s statement to me after recovery was it has taken her a long time to forgive me. When I asked her to explain, her response was ” it took a long time for her to forgive (me) Dad for fighting for them ”  interesting thought

my pain is what these children endured and their loss of each other,  along with their childhood, that is what hurts me most”  

William J